Celebrity Coaching With The UK's Renowned Celebrity Coach, Martin Perry
When Fame And Fortune Come Calling, Are You Ready For The Upside...And The Downside?
It might be everything you ever dreamed of. Fame. Stardom. Celebrity status. The glamorous lifestyle. The glorious trappings.
But what about the downside? What about the 'stuff' the public don't witness?
The moments of self-doubt. The anxieties, worrying if the 'keys to the golden kingdom' will be taken away. The growing pressure to meet expectations.
From my work as a Celebrity Coach, here are the nine key challenges that can impact on creative and commercial development. Do you recognise them?
1: The Block
Maybe you have that difficult second album or novel to write. Deadlines are looming. You dont want to let people down. And you have expectations to manage?
But your stuck. And everything you try doesn't work. Your desperate for a breakthrough, but the harder you try, the worse it gets. Sound familiar?
2: The Source
Maybe you've done it all. Achieved everything you set out to do. Reached your goals. Acquired untold wealth. Have all the trappings.
But then, now what? What's beyond success? What do you do when you have everything? How do you re-connect to the magic that got you to the top of the tree?
Finding the source, is a challenge to test the hearts and minds of the most successful celebrities. In face the more successful you become, the further away from the source you can be drawn.
When you lose connection to the source, life can seem empty and the future can be difficult to envision.
However, when you regain the connection, it will feel like starting over again.
3: Built Up By The Machine
Maybe it started off as a love of music, or dance, or writing. Then the machine got hold of you. The machine that can make you a giant of your industry. Help you attract a world-wide audience, and massage your ego.
But what happened to 'you' in the midst of all this. The 'you' that used to find life so simple. Do you ever yearn to get 'you' back?
The 'you' that's not a celebrity. But a normal person that loves to do simple things. What would it be worth to get 'you' back again?
4: Spat Out By The Machine
And, the machine that can build you up and make you a star, can also cut off the oxygen of publicity. Leave you feeling alone and an 'outsider'.
Maybe you've had your 'time'. And now they don't want to know. Could be ageism. Or maybe you've upset someone. Who knows? The machine can be fickle. Very fickle.
It would be easy to become subject to melancholy, or bitterness. But this won't change anything. When you've been spat out by the machine, it's time to reset the compass, and discover what's next in your life.
5: The Burden Of Perfectionism
This is without doubt, one of the biggest celebrity challenges there is. The all-consuming pressure to be perfect. Knowing your every move is being 'watched'.
It can all seem too much sometimes. This never ending desire to please others. And the sense that whatever you do isn't good enough. But what about you. What do you want? Isn't it time to play by your rules?
6: The Ego Has Landed
Have you ever heard yourself saying those dreaded words, 'Don’t you know who I am?'. And instantly regretted it. That awful moment when you become consumed by your own sense of self-importance.
Maybe it's time to take stock, a step-back and reflect on who you have become in the desire to climb the celebrity ladder.
7: The Witch Hunt
Have you ever had the feeling, that you don't want to get out of bed on a Sunday morning? Not because you had a late night. But because the press are after you. They've built you up. Now it's time to knock you down. To criticise you as a 'public sport'.
How do you keep yourself together, in the middle of very public attack, criticism and ridicule?
8: The Buzz
Maybe your on a high after a success. A great show. A best-selling album. A great review. Your finding it hard to stay grounded.
You become addicted to 'the buzz'. Almost 'needy'. You crave that attention that success creates. But at what price?
9: The Comeback
Perhaps you have been written off. Dismissed by the critics. They said you are finished. Maybe your confidence has taken a beating. But you know that you have something special left inside you.
There is nothing more satisfying than a great comeback. But can you do it? Let me help you prove the critics wrong!
Lets Get Your Belief Flowing Back!
When you experience any of these nine challenges, it can be very frustrating and un-nerving. You feel it deeply. But you don't know how to fix it.
Others may say things like, 'Keep going', or ' Things will turn for you'. But when will they turn? And why will they turn? The harder you try, the worse it seems to get. Is that how it is for you?
The reason that other people's 'enthusiasm' doesn't solve the problem, is that there is probably nothing wrong with your attitude. The solution lies elsewhere.
And agents and friends aren't always trained, to help you overcome these challenges. It's simply too subtle a problem.
I Want You To Breakthrough...
Here's what you will get, if you hire me as your Celebrity Coach.
I tell it like it is. From our first conversation I will pinpoint the reasons why you feel the way you do. Then, give you a very clear strategy to regain it. You will very quickly start to feel the surge of belief and possibility return.
My agenda is simple. I want you to breakthrough and succeed. You will no longer feel alone, with doubts and uncertainty.
Remember - you could wait and hope that by magic that things will change. But experience tells me that rarely happens. There is a reason why you feel the way you do. I am here to help you to return to your brilliant best.
What's The Next Step?...
Most clients like to have a chat with me first. That gives them a good feel of how I work, and how I can help. This first chat will feel like a massive weight has been lifted off your shoulders.
For you will have found someone, who understands what is happening to you. Why it is happening. And, more importantly, what to do about it.
CALL ME directly on 0044(0) 77897 56425. We can have a chat about your situation, and I will tell you how I will help you resolve the problem.
Martin Perry: Celebrity Coaching - 077897 56425